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Mastering Your Mind Power Does Not Have To Be Expensive

Saturday, April 26th, 2008

Mastering your mind power does not have to be expensive. The tool I used and recommended is a rubber band. You can buy a whole bag for less than a dollar! The work that you do is mental, and you are the only one who can do that work for you. It is unfortunate that in the world of today, most of us do not place value on anything unless we pay a great deal of money for it.

Of course you can spend several thousand dollars for a week long or weekend retreat. You can spend hundreds or even thousands of dollars for various audio or video programs. Perhaps you have done so already. If you did and you received the results you desired, that is terrific! We are talking about your life after all and how YOU choose to live it.

Some of those programs are based on some of the latest research in brain wave manipulation, some on hypnosis, and still others are based on various forms of meditation, usually accompanied by some kind of music or other sounds. By the way, finding a master teacher and practicing traditional meditation under his or her instruction is also an option.

The truth is no matter what program you choose to assist you to bring the power of your mind under your control, the success of that program depends on three critical components. First, you must make a DECISION on a program. Secondly, you must make a COMMITMENT to the process of that program. Third, there must be appropriate TOOLS at your disposal to help you through the down times and apparent set backs.

There indeed are going to be apparent set backs with any program you choose. As I have stated earlier, your self image has habitually been allowed to control your mind power and most of what you think. Therefore, it has controlled most of what kinds of experiences have entered your life.

Your thinking happens within you, in your mind. You cannot take any program, no matter what it costs, cut your self open, and neatly place that program inside your mind. Those programs can only assist you in installing thoughts of your choosing to replace the ones you no longer want to have in your mind consistently, but you must do the work. No one else can do it for you.

Assuming you have now decided to take or take back the control of what you will habitually and consistently think. Your self image is not going to release its seat of control easily. It has no choice but to release control to you, however, if you consciously decide to take control, make a commitment to a process to do so, and persist in that process until your new thoughts become habitually consistent.

This is something I know for sure. You can claim or re-claim control of your own mind power. You are the most miraculous of all living beings on earth. You are the owner of a mind that is so stupendous, that as you truly begin mastering your mind power and consciously using it, there is no dream that you can dream that you cannot achieve.

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How to Get Your Ex-Wife Back – The Smart and Better Way

Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008

After the breakup or the divorce, you may have been trying to set your life straight but somehow you could not. You still long for your wife and wonder how she is now and how she spends her time. Love is a difficult thing to deal with. It could drive you nuts when you lose your wife. There is no fast and easy manual on how to get your ex-wife back. Most of the time, you will be by yourself trying to find out by trial and error what works and what doesn’t.

Thankfully, there are couples who got back together after a divorce and you can learn from their experiences. Although each person is unique, there are a number of lessons you need to learn regarding how to get your ex-wife back.

You should remain social and stay as active as possible. This will prevent depression and will help you deal with the difficulties of the divorce. By becoming physically fit and active, you also become more confident. When you are confident, you start to think clearly than if you are depressed. Go out with your friends regularly so they can encourage you to pursue your ex-wife. If you remain solitary, you will only reinforce feelings of loneliness and depression. When you are with your friends and your ex sees you with them, it sends her the signal that you are doing well.

When you are not with the kids and you are not seeing your ex-wife, you need to look back to your marriage and try to look at the things that went wrong. What was your role in the breakup? What went wrong? Don’t just dwell on what your ex-wife did. Breakup and divorce is almost always due to the actions of two people and not just one. Blaming your spouse will get you nowhere so you better get your acts together and look at how to best deal with the situation.

There will be times you meet your ex-wife. These meetings may be purely accidental because of your kids or some coincidence. Perhaps such a meeting is the fruits of your labor in winning her back. You need to enjoy each other’s company and try not to bring up issues that separated you. In doing this, you are not putting undue pressure on yourself and on your ex-wife to get back again.

Give some time to rediscover each other. Show her that she still has a special part in your heart and you want her back. When you shall have warmed up to each other again, then you are making the most important step of all—the chance to get your ex-wife back.

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Mastering Your Mind Power: A New Genesis

Wednesday, April 9th, 2008

Where do you start? Start from where you are. Start by stop taking the power of your mind for granted. Seek to understand to the best of your ability what the self image is, how it assumes control over what enters your unconscious mind, and what it prohibits from entering.

Begin by understanding that your unconscious mind is the power that brings everything you experience into your life, and it is the self image that filters and dictates how you view those experiences and how you react to them. I cannot over state how important this understanding was for me, and I believe it is equally important for you.

Here is a simple 30 day, two-part exercise I recommend for you. Part one requires you to observe for the next few days, which arm or leg you put your garment onto first as you get dressed. After you have identified which it is, you will see that a habit has been formed so firmly that you put your garment onto that limb without your attention. You are observing the power of habit.

In part two of the exercise, get yourself a rubber band, one that is large enough not to constrict your flesh and blood vessels but small enough that it will not easily slip off your wrist and hand. Put it on either wrist and keep in on for the full 30 days.

This is a tool (the rubber band) and technique that was so very helpful to me. It will allow you to be convinced that you can break this very powerful habit, and by inference, nearly any other habit you may choose.

If you have determined that you habitually put your garment onto you right arm (or leg), for example, consciously tell yourself that you are now going to put it onto your left arm (or leg) first for a period of 30 days. Remind yourself that you are breaking the old habit.

If during the 30 days you should forget and fall back into your old habit, whenever you become aware that have done so, pull the rubber band 4 or 5 inches from your wrist and let go. As you feel the sting from the snap of the rubber band, firmly remind yourself that you have decided that you will no longer habitually put your garment onto the right or left arm or leg (whichever is appropriate). You are forming a new habit and you will now put the garment onto the left or right arm or leg (again, whichever is appropriate) first.

After the first week or so you will begin to notice that any time you put on a garment, you will begin to consciously choose the reverse of the old habit as you gradually develop the new one.

This is something I know for sure. You can claim or re-claim control of your own mind power. You are the most miraculous of all living beings on earth. You are the owner of a mind that is so stupendous, that as you truly begin mastering your mind power and consciously using it, there is no dream that you can dream that you cannot achieve.


Harold L Lowe retired at age 62 when his six-figure income position was eliminated. He now wishes to share some of what he has learned since then and some of his experiences as well through articles. He is now studying The New Think And Grow Rich with the author, Ted Ciuba, a founding member of the World Internet Summit. You Must See the FREE Report - How To Access Your FREE MasterMind Training. Get Access Now at http://www.MasteringYourMindPower.com

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Writing a book as an entrepreneur

Sunday, April 6th, 2008

As an aspiring or an established entrepreneur, you are an expert in something, but does the rest of the world know? You have a wealth of information, experience and knowledge that you can package into a book that will benefit others. This truly is the information age and people want to know what you know.
1. A book will give you unbelievable credibility, which increases the respect you will receive from customers and business associates. Wouldn’t you be more likely to purchase widgets from the business person who wrote the book on widgets? New customers are more likely to take advice from, or purchase the services/products from, an established author. Many consultants increase the levels of their business simply by writing a book on their area of expertise.
2. The typical business person might run into roadblocks when seeking media recognition and publicity for their product or service because the media tend to see this kind of exposure as advertising. However, books receive exposure in the form of reviews or features all the time. Books make great print stories and authors make great featured guests on radio and television shows. Sure beats pulling together an advertising budget.
3. Writing a book gives you instant expert status. If you wrote the book, you are now seen as the authority on that subject by others. And you are! You will have now proven that you know what you are talking about. You will show, in writing that you know your business area inside and out.
4. Most entrepreneurs love to hear that publishing a book can easily lead to increased fees. People will pay more to work with an established expert then someone who seems less established in a business. Your book has just given you instant added credentials. It would be nice to add “author of…” behind your name, wouldn’t it?
5. If you are not already a consultant, a book along with your proven expert status could bring you new consulting opportunities where you can bill for your time to educate, speak to and work with other companies and individuals helping them succeed through what you know.
6. If you have a service business or you are selling products already, a book will allow you to add a product to your existing business. Expanding your line is never a bad thing and will open up all kinds of doors in your marketing plan.
7. If you are not already on the internet (and you should be, but that is another article), you can add online marketing to your marketing plan with your book. There are loads of places to sell your book online and having an information product to offer will give you a second stream of revenue with huge potential.
8. Expanding your marketing opportunities and focusing on opportunities for residual income is what you should be focusing on as an entrepreneur. Quit trading your hours for dollars and start working smarter.
Your own book will be a complement and a supplement to your current business. It will also mean an additional source of revenue added to your bottom line. I would be willing to bet that you have thought of writing a book at some point in your career. Almost every single person has. Use your passion. Take your knowledge, package it and sell it. People are willing to pay for what you already know.


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